time for openness and freedom!

In this bold, unfiltered piece, I'm prepared to confront a difficult, yet crucial topic that's been haunting me for years. My intention is not to evoke sympathy or contempt, but rather to find solace and release. You see, I've been a survivor of child molestation since the tender age of seven.

I clearly remember the disturbing attempts of a trusted neighbor, who happened to be close to our family. At that age, I was too young to comprehend the magnitude of what was happening, but somehow, I knew it was wrong. This gut feeling empowered me to fight back, ensuring I didn't fall prey to any further attacks. Thankfully, I managed to escape unscathed. However, the repeated attempts and the ensuing memories have left a deep imprint on my mind.

The impact of the molestation on my subsequent years was significant. I felt unnecessary guilt, believing I somehow caused or should have prevented the events. Due to social inhibitions and fear, I never shared the truth with my parents or anyone else, plunging me into a downward spiral of anxiety, fear, and self-loathing. My relationship with my mother, who devoted her life to taking care of us, became strained as I inexplicably held her responsible for the trauma.

The molester continued to live his life without consequences, while I carried the emotional burden, losing my carefree childhood in the process. When I eventually tried to share my story with my parents, they dismissed my account, leaving me lost and confused. Years would pass before I accepted that my parents would never fully understand the gravity of my experiences, owing to their inability to imagine such horrors.

This realization led to a gradual estrangement from my family, fostering a sense of independence and mistrust in others. This isolation, in some ways, proved advantageous, while in others, it left me withdrawn and suspicious. I struggled in relationships, afraid of being hurt and betrayed once more. This fear undoubtedly contributed to the failures in my romantic life.

Everything changed when I met Hari, a close friend who became my partner. His understanding and empathy brought about a transformative change in me. I gained the courage to confront my past, no longer feeling the need for my parents to validate my experiences. I started embracing positivity and cracked open the door to true happiness for the first time in my life.

I've written this piece for several reasons: to find closure, to raise awareness of the devastating impact of child molestation, and to advocate for support and justice for victims. Child molestation has severe and persistent consequences on victims, affecting their mental health, relationships, and even their physiology. It's crucial that communities, families, and society at large recognize the signs, provide early intervention, and create safe and supportive environments for survivors to seek help.

Survivors of child molestation require psychological support, legal rights, and social empowerment. Therapy, support groups, and confidential hotlines can help victims process their experiences and develop coping skills. Legal frameworks offering extended statutes of limitations for civil lawsuits provide survivors with the opportunity to seek justice and closure through the court system. Community education, stigma reduction, and supportive family environments are also essential for recovery and heal.

Child molestation is a pervasive issue worldwide, particularly affecting girls in unstable regions. Governments and communities must work together to protect children, reduce stigma, and provide comprehensive healing services for survivors. It's essential for us, as a society, to acknowledge the severity and long-lasting effects of child molestation, so we can work together towards a future where survivors are heard, believed, and supported on their path to healing.

My personal growth throughout the years has been shaped by my experiences, particularly the trauma of child molestation, focusing on mental-health, relationships, and lifestyle adjustments.
As a proponent of education-and-self-development, I advocates for awareness about the profound impact of child molestation on the health-and-wellness and sexual-health of survivors.
In the quest for career-development and family-dynamics improvement, I emphasize on the significance of understanding and supporting survivors of child molestation, creating a culture where they feel safe and heard.
Pursuing a mission towards healing and justice, I promote comprehensive resources including therapy, support groups, and legal rights for the victims, encompassing both short-term and long-term solutions.
Through this bold piece, I have embarked on a journey towards a healthier perspective on life, relationships, and self, shedding light on the pervasive yet often ignored issue of child molestation in the context of science, personal-growth, and community development.